Making Your Spouse Smile

The Little Things That Mean Everything

In the busyness of life—deadlines, dishes, and daily routines—it’s easy to forget the power of a simple smile. Yet one of the most meaningful ways to nurture your marriage is by doing something each day to bring joy to your spouse’s face.

A smile may seem small, but it’s a reflection of love, laughter, connection, and comfort. And the best part? It doesn’t require grand gestures. Often, it’s the little things that leave the biggest impressions. Here are a few suggestions:

1. Words That Lift

Take a moment to send a sweet text, leave a sticky note, or whisper something kind and unexpected. Compliment their appearance. Thank them for something they did.

2. Acts of Kindness

Actions speak louder than words—especially when they’re unexpected. Fix a small breakfast, warm up the car, fold the laundry, or cook their favorite meal without being asked.

3. Inside Jokes and Shared Laughs

Nothing breaks tension and builds intimacy like laughter. Bring up a funny memory, send a silly meme, or do that quirky thing you know they find hilarious.

4. Physical Connection

Hugs, kisses, hand-holding—these simple touches remind your spouse they are loved, wanted, and safe. Give your spouse an extra-long hug.

5. Listening With Intent

One of the most powerful gifts you can give is your full attention. Smile at them while they talk. Ask follow-up questions. Show that what matters to them, matters to you.

6. Celebrate the Ordinary

You don’t need a special occasion to do something special. Random flowers. A dance in the kitchen. A spontaneous “I love you.”

Making your spouse smile isn’t about perfection—it’s about presence. It’s about noticing, appreciating, and choosing joy. Be intentional. Be playful. Be thoughtful.

And if you’re wondering where to start… just look them in the eyes and smile!